Black Queer Kinkster Led Sex Ed
SEX EDUCATOR & STORYTELLER
Owner of JKToyz - www.jktoyz.xyz | Editor of Perverts of Color Zine (out of print)
My name is Jaki Griot.
Some folks know me from following my work since 2012 with Perverts of Color. I've been creating art and organizing events for people of color to celebrate the diversity of perversity in Leather, BDSM, and Kink communities. For other folks who are newer, let me introduce myself.
I've been working in the adult industry since 2006 teaching sex education, hosting events, and selling toys. This makes over 15 years of experience doing what I love and inspiring others to do the same. Sex and playtime are some of the ways we create joy in our lives. I want people to play with themselves and their partners.
What's important to me is to make playtime feel fun and pleasurable so people feel empowered to explore their passions. You don't have to "feel sexy" to have a great sex life. All bodies regardless of gender, sex, race, size, and abilities can have a rewarding healthy sexual lifestyle. Playtime is important for grown folks too.
Due to the nature of adult topics being censored online, it's best to email me to discuss further what services you need. Whatever your interests, I guarantee you need a Black Queer Sex Educator named Jaki Griot to assist.
Yes, you do!
I can help you.
Jaki Griot Productions includes: classes (in-person and virtually), adult toy personal shopping - (www.jktoyz.com), sex positive kinky writer for hire, event hosting and kinky consultations.
Below is the selection of available classes, in-person and virtual by Jaki Griot Productions. Rates per class start at $250 for individual, $300 for couples and $500 for groups.
DIRTY TALK 101
Learn the art of stimulating sexy conversations from a professional phone sex worker. You will gain a few easy methods to get more comfortable exchanging intimacy with words for fun and for profit. Learn ways to discuss bodies beyond gender and the ethics of trash talk. Learn how to practice your new smutty vocabulary and ways to incorporate dirty talk into your sex life.
ORAL SEX FOR EVERY BODY
How to give your lover great sloppy toppy regardless of what parts. You will have more language to discuss what you enjoy so you can communicate with your lover. Learn some techniques to increase your skills including listening for the right moans.
STRAP-ON SEX FOR ALL BODIES
Anyone can enjoy a sex with a harness. Whether you are curious about strap-ons primarily for sexual pleasure, gender affirmation, as a prosthetic or some combination of the above, you will feel empowered after leaving this class. Let me convince you to try my favorite thing - strap-ons. Consider Jaki Griot a Strap-On Enthusiast. You will learn what options to purchase and how to use it like a professional. Get answers to the question, “Do people get pleasure from wearing a harness?” Spoilers, the answer is HELL YES.
ANAL SEX FOR EVERYONE
Everyone has a booty and butts are gender neutral pleasure centers that can be enjoyed by all. Stigma around body health and sexuality holds many people back from exploration. We will discuss anatomy basics including different types of lubes and stimulation to take you to new pleasure experiences. We will discuss the taboos and the techniques to enjoy backdoor anal play exploration for every body.
Q. How do queers have sex? A. However they want! Better yet, what even is sex outside of heteronormative penetrative sex. We will discuss safer sex for all people, how to define sex and the risks and how masturbation aka solo sex is as queer as we make it.
VETTING 101 - PRACTICAL SKILLS YOU NEED
This class is about practical vetting skills for kinksters. Kinky folks need to know how to vet people in their community as play partners, professionals and people to pass by. There isn't one answer and it can be trickier than it sounds. What is the difference between vetting and gossiping? What if they are inexperienced or if you are new to the area? What are ways we can vet new partners and value their privacy? This one hour class will have tips, techniques and strategies to help you navigate through your next kinky adventures.
LET’S GET TO THE BOTTOM: SEXY TOYS - 101
Sex toys can be intimidating because the options seems limitless. Learn the basics of toy categories and general uses for pleasure so you will be an empowered satisfied customer when you choose your next adventure. You’ll learn how to pick as a couple vs picking solo time toys. You’ll get tips for picking quality materials, lubes and accessories that can elevate your next experience. Don’t be afraid! It’s all about making you feel good.
BONDAGE BESIDES ROPE BONDAGE
I love love love bondage but I am 100% uninterested in rope so this is the class for folks who want to learn to tie their lover down without shibari. There is a wide world of bondage options that range from casual to extreme. We will review some examples, go over bondage safety and learn some tips for first time bondage.
HOW TO HOST AN ORGY
This class is a step-by-step guide to how to organize, advertise and plan an orgy for maximum pleasurable results.
HOW TO BUILD YOUR FANTASY
This class is a step-by-step guide on how to negotiate a specific fantasy with your partner from conception to scene to aftercare and beyond.
HUMOR IN THE DUNGEON: ADDING LAUGHTER TO OUR TOY BAGS
One of the most common human experiences is sharing laughter. It is a building block used to create intimate relationships. Laughter can be used as a tool to dramatically alter the direction of our scene. Laughter can be a breathing technique, a vehicle to establish a power exchange, a test of wills or just plain funny! The darker side of laughter can include humiliation and edge play. Laughter can induce altered states of mind to connect us to the divine. This workshop will explore physical and psychological aspects of laughter for all players. It will also talk about the ways we use laughter to hinder negotiation and honest communication.
THE BIG O - ORGASMS FOR VULVAS
(90 min w/ discussion)
The human vagina is capable of unimaginable pleasure and this workshop is designed to teach anyone with a vulva how to have mind blowing orgasms. We will learn our pleasure anatomy, discuss the power of masturbation for kegals and review techniques for increasing pleasure during solo and partnered experiences.
SERVICE-ORIENTED DOESN’T MEAN FREE LABOR
(90 min w/ discussion)
This class is about authority in closed relationships (also called power exchange) as a lifestyle and a kink. It explains concepts like Top/bottom, Dominant/submissive and Master/slave relationships. Service is defined as a concept and and then discussed in relation to how societal ideas of race and gender shape consensual power exchange dynamics.
WE DIDN'T INVENT THIS - BDSM ACTIVITIES THROUGH HUMAN HISTORY
(90 min w/ discussion)
This class begins a display of historical evidence that shows alternative sexual activities and practices throughout time. Using images from Egypt, to Greek to Roman prove that human sexuality is diverse and subjective to the individual and their society. Based on the evidence, there is a group discussion about kink’s place in society and how to create ethical
standards around kink activities.
LIVING KINKY AFTER RELIGIOUS ABUSE: FROM VICTIMS TO SURVIVORS
(90 min w/ discussion)
Religious abuse can manifest in myriad ways which include teaching dogma in a manner that causes psychological trauma. For kinksters, these experiences often become challenges in our path towards self-acceptance. Our trusted teachers, clergy or family have used religion to justify discrimination, harassment and/or humiliation. In some cases, we've been the victims of violence and extremism in our own homes. We do not always consider the ways that this abuse can hinder our kink lives. Nor do we always have an outlet to search for other survivors and create resources that facilitate healing. This workshop will talk about different types of religious abuse and the symptoms. It will provide strategies to deal with religious abuse when confronted. It will also discuss ways to reconcile our experience into a greater understanding of the universe and/or divine. This workshop is not a substitute for individual therapy and it will conclude with a list of resources for people interested in seeking kink-aware professionals.